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Children with problems and their trauma

Have you heard the word trauma?

Trauma means "trauma" in medical terms.

In psychology, it refers to 'mental trauma' and 'shock'.

The impact here refers to the impact of leaving a permanent mental disorder rather than a temporary one.

Recently, psychologists have been subdividing this trauma a little more.

There are things that we generally think are the cause of trauma.

If something happens to you that you can not think of and can not get up, you will have a trauma to us.

The trauma that is caused by various accidents such as traffic accidents, assaults, sexual harassment, or physical injuries is called "incident trauma."

The incident trauma is also found in witnesses who witnessed the incident.

On the other hand, there are traumas that you will receive if you are not even aware of the occurrence of the event.

That's the 'developmental trauma' associated with the topic we're talking about today.

Developmental trauma is also called 'hidden trauma'.

This trauma comes to us when we do not even know when we got it.

Developmental trauma is a trauma that is literally acquired during development.

Everyone will feel that the developmental process is related to the growth of children.

The causes of developmental trauma are as follows.

1. When I was not care for my childhood
2. When you are left neglected
3. When you can not form attachment with your parent, such as your parents,
4. When you are physically or socially threatened

Because of this cause, when you are deprived of human basic desire for safety and security, you will fall into developmental trauma.

The sadder fact is that most of the causes mentioned above start from infancy.

In other words, you do not know that it will become a trauma at a time when you do not know anything, and suffer from anxiety and depression.

It is very difficult to treat the developmental trauma because you get it without knowing yourself.

There are exceptionally prominent students in the classroom.

How good it would be if I could stand out for positive reasons. Unfortunately, most of the students who are prominent on the part of the teacher have problems.

The problem may be limited to you, or it may affect others.

Children caught in developmental trauma show symptoms such as anxiety, depression, panic, helplessness, and learning disabilities.

In addition, to compensate for the lack of safety and stability, obsessed with pornography, drinking and smoking.

Such students are called troublemakers.

Obviously other behaviors than their peers have a bad influence on parents as well as teachers who teach them.

Parents may be more sorely disguised because of their sadness in seeing such children, or because they want to correct their behavior.

Problem If a student's problem behavior is excessive, the teacher may rather avoid the student.

As a teacher, there may be criticism that it does not fulfill its responsibilities.

I expect an ideal teacher, but they also have limitations. Between ideal and reality, teachers are also distressed.

There is no good relationship with friends. They are also subject to bullying. Or a perpetrator or victim of school violence.

You may be showing behavior problems because you are deprived of safety and stability.

No children are born to cause problems. Every action has its cause.

The following figure is a simple summary of the trauma mind map.

I would like to help you guide your children.

This article is a translation of a blog written in Korean.
This can make your writing awkward and difficult to understand.
Please take this into consideration.

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